So, I have been reading up on T0324. Also jumped around a little and read some things from Train. All signs point to what Zues, tl2, Pink, Anna and others have said to me. Same deal with what I've seen other vets say to threads I follow.
So why do I resist? Why?
Stfu is a huge one for me. I would deserve the oscars of Stfu-ness if i can pull this off! And I'd have a great speech too
Make every interaction a good one- leave them with a good feeling. Sooooo, cursing and crying and shaming are off the table...geez what WILL we talk about
Gal gal gal...I actually did not want to hear this 3 weeks ago. How can I gal when my world and family just fell apart. But chaknow what? Doing small things like fixing my hair and taking the kids out and catching a movie have helped me feel better. Even if only a little bit. Ill take that!
Be mysterious...must admit I am not to sure about how to do this one but I want to learn.
Detach....ahhhh the golden goose. This is what I want more than anything. So that I can stop the madness.
Well that's it for now. Hope everyone is having a good night.
Rain
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
