Hey All,

I wana start by saying sorry for my bit of a hiatis. Its been a very busy holidays for a number of different reasons lots of gatherings with family and friends. I dont rememeber where i left or but I am generally doing pretty well. Wife is still seeing OM. I have been doing well with not snooping. I am not doing well with reading DR book need to get back at it. The big update is W is moving out and into her brothers house with him. She has already moved the spare bed there and setup a crib for S1. We have discussed doing some sort of every other day during week and every other weekends for spending time with S1. I have generally had a relitivly PMA i have been struggling though watching her move stuff out the door and having to re orgagnize my stuff because she took one of our dressers with her. Monday will be back to work and back to well a new routine hopefully that will help. I think he being on her own may help her to relize how much i have done for her over the years. She feels shes been neglected but she is not very independent and is quite needy and me the nice guy i am tried to take care of everything and still give her everything she needed emotionally at the same time. I feel this has just burned me out and caused me to fail to provide what is needed i know this is the root of our problems but she doesnt seem to care to see it. Anyways im rambling now. I dont realy have any questions just thought i would get back active on here as i remember how much you all have helped me over these last couple months smile let me know if you have any questions or comments.


M30 - W29 - S1.5
EA/PA Confirmed - Oct 30, 2015
Confronted W about the A - Nov 1, 2015
W asked for seperation - Nov 22, 2015
W moves out of house - Jan 3rd, 2016