I honored my wifes wishes and had limited contact with her for 6 months in the same house. Nothing changed. I now am trying to talk to her more. Not pursuing, just talk. About the dog, cars, house, kids and stuff like that. My hope is to display good behaviors and have some limited connection with her.

What do you want Julie? Not how do you want to get there. What do you want? Marriage or Divorce. You made thoughtful logical points for both. Which will it be? When you, your heart and mind, decide, the path will become clear. This is not an easy choice but only you can make it. I'll remind you of something you already know. It is easier to destroy then to create. Be strong Julie, be well



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus