I do not disagree with what you are saying, but how do you forgive if you feel a person that engages in this behavior can never be a good person?
Do you consider a person that leaves his family without Affair in the same category? (My husband denies Affair, I know it's hard to believe) my husband supposedly didn't lie, but his actions (refusing to support financially) were pretty selfish.
Thank you for the line " we should work torwards being the best man we can be every day of our lives". your comment is helping to remind me that i should remain honorable despite my feelings of pain. That I will truly win, if I remain honorable. And winning is important to me.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015