Thank you for all of that 2thepoint. I hear you on all of it and I will be reading your post over and over to let it sink in. What you and Sandi have advised is very powerful and true, but also very scary for me to accept. If I tell my WW that I cannot continue with plans to move out of state, it will definitely put the nail in the coffin for our marriage. I'm not telling you that out of fear, but out of confidence. There will be no salvaging our marriage if I tell her that we're staying put. Is that something that I should just face and deal with it, or should I hold off on making the declaration that I'm not moving?
I think I know the answer to this last question, but I'd still like a take on it. This whole situation is just so confusing and honestly quite scary. Not knowing how this is going to unfold and what she's planning/thinking is terrible. But there's no way I'm going to ask her what she's thinking. I'm just going to keep taking care of myself as I am and see what happens. I know I can only focus on improving myself and being an awesome dad, so that's what I'm doing.
Thank you again for your input. I really appreciate it.
