I also feel like I see positive signs my wife cares, but also many that she hasn't totally turned toward me yet. GALing will help us both stay patient, although you have personal safety issues that I thankfully don't have to deal with...
You were not whining, and you telling me your story provides support than you will ever know. I am humbled to hear you say you are learning from me-I always felt like I learned so much more from you. How to be strong and courageous in the midst of incredible pain. How to stand up for myself. How to remain hopeful in some of life's most hopeless moments.
In short, you inspire me.
Let's make a deal with each other to keep working our damndest on ourselves. Yes, we want or spouses to join us at some point. But I'm happyou settling on becoming a better person.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
