Looking forward to the new year

[JulieH]

other thing I am wondering about at the moment, is limited contact working against me? I make no effort and neither does he.

Or perhaps this is just telling me what I don't want to hear... He really is not invested. His actions are stating the obvious, so I should just move on so that i can meet someone I can have a healthy relationship with.

I feel like saying something to get a reaction. Bringing up that he is playing mind games by telling me he wants reconciliation. Questioning directly why he tried so hard to get me back to work full time and cited this as excuse for not leaving families house. Let him know I see the discrepancy...

If I was advising someone else I would tell them don't do anything to show that you want his attention cause that shows you care.

He did wish me a happy New Years, but that was later last evening. I was getting upset that he said nothing but made sure I did not initiate. Then again if I did not have kids, would he?

I'm sorry. I'm rambling again. Emotional and down today.