Updated/still thinking about next steps

[kyrie]

There are several things in play: chronic alcohol use, the porn, compulsive behaviors (cleanliness, order, buying sometimes).
I know he has so much ammo. He's scared of my nuclear ICBM.
I can't make him understand that he's in control really, and I would never ever do that. I even said I had the capacity to RUIN Jason, my ex, while he was on active duty. I could have destroyed his security clearance (remember, I was active too - lots of ways to do that, esp. when I was a security officer), ruined his chance at retirement,etc. I explained that I could never do that to Jason and I could never to that to him. FWIW.

Bless you Trumpet.