Thank you PigPen. I appreciate you being vulnerable like that too. And FWIW, I applaud your strength in dealing with all those chains on your heart and soul. That takes real strength and real guts and real faith.

So some of the things he said last night was that he wished I stayed up and even initiated or at least showed interest (not in his words). Even after talking about that kind of revelation!

Are you saying I shouldn't continue to show interest, try to meet at least some needs?

How do I talk to Cristy?

Last edited by kyrie; 01/03/16 03:55 AM.
Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?