I appreciate that. I know you're doing your best - the whole thing is confusing (not you guys so much - just this sin-soaked world). You have been helpful, truly. It isn't a big deal, esp. when its used as an escape, alternative, or even spitefully. He hasn't specifically talked about it in sermons, but he teaches about the 6th commandment (not committing adultery, leading a chaste & decent life in thought, word and deed) and of course all of Jesus's teachings, not to mention that marriage reflects Christ & the Church! Unfaithfulness is unfaithfulness and must be dealt with. I think he feels that he's dealing with it. Maybe he is. but the computer records show a different story. Maybe it used to be even worse. I dunno.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?