Updated/still thinking about next steps

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JellyB, I wholeheartedly agree.

Kyrie, I think Zeus and I might be disagreeing a bit on the particulars of your sitch, but we both want to see what you want - a healthy relationship with your H. We're here on this board to help bring our own M back from terrible places. I was attracted to your thread because of my personal addiction, and thought my perspective could help with what your husband might be going through.

I still think, to a casual, middle-of-the-road observer, porn isn't a big deal. To your husband, who is a pastor, it probably is a huge deal. Has he preached upon the topic? Have sermons that speak to it?