Yes no, I dunno.
I mean, fact is we won't be residing in the same country. He plans to be around for 7-9 days a month, that is when he is not traveling for a project. He is a very hands on father when he is around, he just hasn't been around that much. I'm more worried about legal custody really. I have no reason to think we won't agree on matters pertaining to our D, but I also thought I was married for life. So there's that...