Originally Posted By: Rain75

He recently told me the following...

You can't control yourself

I refuse to talk about this again

Why is it you can talk about her all day but never tell me you miss me or the kids miss me or invite me over?

I won't let this be my life where im torn down every day

I have not spoken to her

I did a lot of things wrong and I said a lot of things I shouldn't have. I lied to the both of you

Please know that I do love you but won't keep fighting about her

I missed her but only the fun we once had that you and I do not

I am sorry...Ive said that but its not enough for you

I just want peace

She never judged me and thats all you seem to do

I know I am a f%#! Up

If i really wanted to be with her I would have and gladly taken all the fall out.

If i come over and you mention her I am leaving

My phone code is for me no one gets to go through my phone

Maybe everyone would be better off if i died


So he wants you to throw him a big pity party without giving anything back to you?

Id disregard every single one of these lines.