I had already asked Zues. I think Kyrie missed it.
And my concern was raised more by Kyrie's sentence about her daughter. When mum's have those worries, then it moves porn use into a different realm for me.
Personally I am neither here nor there about a person's personal use of porn. I am however a protector and advocate of children and non consenting young people.
I also have a pretty good knowledge of the relationship between porn and abuse against children. Please note that this is a BIG INTELLECTUAL AND EMOTIONAL LEAP! Thus my suggestion to tread lightly here.
I agree with you Zues, DB coach, 100%. Let me say too that this is a complex marriage sitch, and Kyrie our wish is to support you.
Please keep sharing your story and what the board can do you assist you to feel better about YOU.