I don't disagree with a lot of what you are saying.
Kyrie's fear about H accessing the teenage porn content- puts a slightly different lens on the issue.
This needs further discussion and talking through. I don't believe that the board and our level of expertise around this issue is necessarily the right place.
I did ask Kyrie for more information on this as, it would guide me more in my comments and level of concern. I think we as boarders need to tread carefully here.
Zues this may well need to be a mountain - accessing sexual content of teenagers especially non-consenting young people is not ok. In saying that mountains don't necessarily mean that families and marriages need to dissolve or combust. I have seen a number of families come back from this issue.
Lets be very careful here. Kyrie you can't deal with this in isolation. I'm not saying you have do anything other than open up your system to support and knowledge and plan your next steps. Do this with a therapist who specialises in this work.
This is all very complex and next steps need to protect everyone. H and children and Kyrie you.
Keep posting Kyrie. There is plan here for you, H and children somewhere. It just needs more light on it.
