Wonka has been adding some support to NYGal sitch. You may want to pop in there, and ask for some support. Otherwise just put an SOS out to Wonka on your own thread. Wonka has lot on sometimes, but she is pretty amazing in these instances. She will really help you nut out if a letter is the best idea, but also find the words if that is the next approach. Also Mutatio it requires you putting some pretty personal stuff out here for all of us to read. So it requires some consideration. But there is no harm it talking it through.
You may want to read some of PP's threads when Wonka was helping PP get contact time with Woofie.
