Updated/still thinking about next steps

[kyrie]

I agree that your brain is re-wiring. Addictions proceed further and seek more intensity if fed. His porn use started going toward teen and specifically "Not a Step-Dad plays video games with hot blonde teen". That's my 14 year old ... tall, blonde, blue eyed. They bond over video games. That's what drove me to the breaking point. She's his step-daughter - no blood relation. It is getting worse....

Tell me more about this Kyrie.

JellyBxxx

JellyB - what? I meant he's watched a lot of that kind of porn recently - that's literally the title about the step-dad playing video games with hot teen. I have a 14D, his step-daughter, with which he bonds with playing video games. So he's seeking out porn that is nearly exactly like the things he enjoys doing w/her. Lately he's been more playful and affectionate towards her. He always played straight up authoritarian Father most of the time. That's slowly changed, which is fine. But this is completely different - almost like flirting. He's been the stay at home parent so LOTS of time on his hands (ugh) and with them. Seems like a movie or something.
Seeing that playing out scares me that he's fantasizing and involving HER in the porn fantasy (not in real life...but it all starts in the heart/mind).