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mutatio #2637548 01/02/16 09:18 PM
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I am glad you liked it! Did you see the great blue herons? Its a great place to take your dog. My walk was 3 miles through our busy suburban neighborhood, not as pretty as the gorge but with a friend helping me brainstorm teen discipline issues. Did you wave to my sis? LOL.


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I did see a solitary heron fly by following the river north. Does your sister walk the gorge?

Walking this new path alone was unsettling. I kept thinking this is what life will now be like. Alone in uncharted territory. I was also thinking I love nature, I'm going to the mountains.

It was a nice walk, maybe a little to real



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Lovely to hear about your work Mutatio.

Just saw your post on annab's thread. If you are considering letter writing you may want Wonka in on it. This is her area of expertise. She has helped many construct emails and letters.

Just thought I would give you the heads up.

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Jelly, What would be the best way to contact Wonka?



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mutatio #2637568 01/02/16 10:53 PM
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Wonka has been adding some support to NYGal sitch. You may want to pop in there, and ask for some support. Otherwise just put an SOS out to Wonka on your own thread. Wonka has lot on sometimes, but she is pretty amazing in these instances. She will really help you nut out if a letter is the best idea, but also find the words if that is the next approach. Also Mutatio it requires you putting some pretty personal stuff out here for all of us to read. So it requires some consideration. But there is no harm it talking it through.

You may want to read some of PP's threads when Wonka was helping PP get contact time with Woofie.

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Thank you Jelly. It was suggested that this might be felt as pursuit. I'll ask Wonka



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Mu, I'm glad you went on a hike. I love that. Wish I could have went too. Sometimes nature can show you how small we are. And that our problems are not the end of the world. In fact, the world doesn't give a hoot.

When does your tig class start?


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The third full week of this month. Night classes, 2 classes a week 2.5 hours each class.

I love nature and hiking.



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Hey Mu,

It may feel like pursuit at the point you're at in your sitch. Wonka's the master though, if there's a way to make it not seem like pursuit, she's the one to get you there. Plus you'll learn a lot from her in the process. I didn't know what I didn't know about communication until she guided me through my own email chapter with my W.

Had I written what I wanted to I don't think we'd be talking at all right now...but I would have been right!

Feels good to see you're out hiking and enjoying yourself, that's the best GAL you can do and your W will pick up on that. She can feel the pursuit in you still I would imagine. She just can. Keep expanding your horizons and the need for pursuit will start to slip away

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Thanks PP!!! JellyBxxx

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