Finally! 2015 is coming to an end. :-)

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Ancaire, never stop fighting. There will always be something worth the effort and so many people that would devastated if they didn't have you in their life. I'm saddened to hear you had the letters wrote out but glad you burned them. Life is precious and always worth it and I think the direction your turning now is great. I don't keep up with many people threads as im so busy so I had no idea you were at that point but please know I care very much. This forum is full of people that care. Many of us have been in that exact same place so we can relate.

Never feel bad for explaining how you really feel. If theres a reason for alarm we would rather know about it. The whole purpose of the forum is to offer support to those that may be going through similiar circumstances. This is always a safe place to post and share whatever you're really feeling.

It's hard for all of us to say the right words to ourselves even if we know what they are. At some point someone said, maybe cadet, it's easy to see what needs to be done or said for others because we're detached from their sitch. With our own it's much more complicated putting into action even if we know what to say/do. We all struggle here.