Celebrate your progress in detaching. I decided to really feel good about my baby steps in the last couple days, and it helped. Everyone struggles.
I still love my W. But she's on a different path than me now. I know I won't be able to drop the rope for a while, but I have finally put slack in the rope, and have some freedom. And the kids will see a dad happy and healthy, and not hanging on for dear life.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
