Zues- I think I have mentioned before how impressed I am with the wisdom and insight you share especially considering your young age. When I read your timeline and the responses of others to it, I realize how "stuck" I am. I have been with H since I was 18 there has never been anyone else and I cannot fathom the thought of there ever being anyone else. Here I am 15 months in and I feel like the 90 days mark. Is it easier for men to move forward? I read about so much personal growth here on these boards. I don't know that I have grown at all
