Joss

I would consider detaching more from him
You have made it pretty clear that you care
even in detachment, they can come closer if that is what they want

In your text earlier, you mentioned your pain in regards to his new home and I believe these guys can read between the lines…

I like the idea of kindness and yes if you can practice this while detaching and creating your own life that is great…
so I guess Im saying I like your caring and authentic behavior toward him but at this point I would practice detaching more

yes I too would be interested to see if he accepts offer and what kind of behavior he brings to table


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