TBH I don't think my H is moving closer. The way I see it is that he can't take the girls to OW's house and isn't bothered to take the kids out, so staying in the house is the best option for him. Regarding staying longer, I think it's because he is probably not allowed to go to OW's house before a certain time!
I don't care, what I see is that he is spending a lot of time with the kids ( more than he ever did with his first child), so it's all benefits for my girls. Also I'm not stupid as when D will be filed, I will have not much to hold against him. So I know it's all about looking good in front of the judge later on!
H came to collect kids, Gosh he looked rough and unhappy, but again not my problem.
Other than that, weather is grey here but I have a smile on my face. No kids today so went to town to treat myself, done groceries, gonna take dog for a walk and then a bit of work. I'm so relax. There were places in town where I got triggered but I breathed and said it's out of my control, there is nothing I can do. Move forward Rouky :-)
