Ghost taking baby steps

[ATPeace]

Hi Sandi2

Please can I ask I read a lot of your posts on other threads as well and something you often say it's that if I have been needy and weak and she has felt as she has often said to me it is like having another child how do I now become the strong confident man that she may be looking for when when pretty much wants nothing to do with me emotionally.

I could do what I am doing

On a friends basis we are good
On a parenting basis we are good
She seems happy to stay in the house whilst we are getting along and I am doing my share of the housework and being a better father to our children

Many Thanks

Ghost