They're unbelievable at times aren't they. This kind of thing hurts more when my h does similar, than when he does something directly to me. However the positive I try to see when I look at this, and this is me trying to find the positive in an awful situation is that it just shows how this isn't personal to us- if they can be like this towards an innocent young child. Your h, probably like mine, will probably disappear in a mood for a while. And again, just guessing and I know we shouldn't be mind reading, is that they feel bad for the way that they've been and their behaviour.
All the more important to me, and I know I don't need to tell you this, is why it's important for us to be the sane, steady reliable one- if not for anyone else but our children. They are truly truly the innocent party in this.
Sorry you had to deal with this E, but you're doing fab. Huge New Years hugs to you my love!
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