Is covering monetarily until the invoices get paid a regular thing you've done, or is it something new? I thought it was the latter. In my mind it makes a difference.
Would allowing the company to go red help, or hurt, you and your chances of reconcilliation with H? I don't know.
You are still married and not in the D process. I'd move ahead with that frame of mind if I were you.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl