Updated/still thinking about next steps

[Zues126]

Trumpet, much of what you're saying is spot on. My only concern is this:

I think he needs another pastor to witness to him. It will need to be a 'coming to Jesus' moment, and it might rock his world, or put him on a deeper path for a while.

DBing truly isn't about changing the other person.

If her H was unwilling to do this, what then? Is there no way to have a functional and meaningful marriage without him following this path? Should she file for D if he doesn't immediately agree this is an addiction responsible for the problems in the M and agree not to view porn again?

When you ask the follow up questions you'll see why DB truly is about working on ourselves.

JB, you said it better than I ever could. Thank you.