We are still living under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed. As mentioned not a word as been uttered about our marriage in more than two months. I keep busy at work and when not working I am spending quality time with my two boys.

My relationship with the spouse is cordial but there is no affection or visible emotion. When at home and in the same room there is very little conversation but we do discuss the boys.

In past posts I have inquired about opening some sort of marriage dialogue but other DB'ers including yourself, Sandi2, have advised against it. By stating boundaries the relationship discussion will hav been started by me.


Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali