Maybe. My H just incited a 30 minute meltdown because he didn't want to give my S a hand out of the bathtub. He kept telling him to get out and my S kept saying he needed help. Finally my H says if I help you out I'm not reading bed time stories.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out