Some wake up and are the same and others wake up and continue to keep some of their habits that they've picked up during their journey. Your h sounds like the latter type.
I'm glad things are slowly working out for you. It takes a lot of time to release that anger and also to rediscover the people that you both have become. Just remember...it's a new marriage and you both changed during the time of his crisis.
I'm very happy for you. You worked very hard to get to where you are today.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
