Wife checked out (2)

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Trying to be patient. I have found that I am a fixer and want to make things easier for everyone else no matter how hard it is for me. Being in limbo land is tougher than I could have ever imagined. Each week feels like a month and each month feels like a year. My gut reaction is to be alone and do things around the house to pass the time. I have a problem with meeting new people on a casual basis because I tend to to be so black and white with everyone. I either immediately put them in the good friend I will go to the ends of the earth for category or the I wouldn't care if I never see or hear from them again category. I'm not sure when I became this way or what caused it. I have hired and fired many people in my career and am able to treat people at work all as equals, just can't seem to get there on a personal level.