My two relationships brought the only colour I had ever known in life. And clung to each gorgeous man ( and they were good, kind men with faults), like a drowning woman clinging to a life preserver. A squeezed all the colour out them I could get, and when they had no colour left they left me. I makes complete sense that they did.
Hey JB. I like that you're doing what you can to become more whole. That said, I think the biggest key is being able to identify and partner with the right people. Who has a better chance of a lasting M- someone that has done thousands of hours of personal development but picks an addict with poor relationship skills, or someone that has serious dysfunction but picks a partner that means their vows and would never walk?
I love that you're DBing to get yourself into a place where you can hold out for someone in that latter camp. The longer I'm on here the more I think a big part of relationship success is teaming up with someone that won't quit. The problems come when we are so needy that we don't hold out for what we deserve.
Later!
Falling into this trap at the moment. Very unsettling Zues.
