WW is onboard with trying to save the M

[Zues126]

I thought you were getting it for a moment, but this last post proves otherwise.

Your post looks normal at the surface, and maybe some people are nodding along...but from my vantage it is literally insane. Just insane. Like straight jacket insane.

This continued dishonesty and betrayal has thoroughly pushed me across the line and I no longer have any interest in giving her more chances. She has crossed a boundary that I set very clearly, which is that I won't live with her in the same house if she chooses to continue staying in touch with him. I must now follow through with those consequences.

This. All complete garbage. I have spent hours trying to express to you that your feelings are creating thoughts that seem logical but are rationalizations to take action to generate feelings of control and closure. I warned you not to listen to them. I told you that you 'intelligence' may destroy your life because you are smart enough to come up with such good rationalizations you can believe them yourself. But the truth is that you are completely lost at sea and continue to insist you are clear on what you are doing.

I feel like you're drunk at the bar and continue to insist that you can drive. I concede. Keep your keys. You have it figured out. Think up a plan that makes you feel in control, enforce your consequences, execute, slam stuff around in your life, hit some goals, find some new woman, rinse repeat.