Thank you for your advice Sandi2. I appreciate the time you take to help me get through my situation. I am unsure how I will approach this boundary making. I am afraid to bring this topic up as it may have been the breaking point for my wife last time I expressed my concerns about the neighbour.
My conflict is how can I detach , "act as if", and GAL if I reopen this can of worms? Divorce has never been mentioned. I suspect D will likely be brought up by my wife. If D is mentioned , I have no intentions of initiating it.
What I am thinking of doing is suggesting we put the house up for sale. This I could follow up on. If she asks why I will then state I know longer wish to live near Our neighbour. She knows how much I love our home. This would be the ultimate 180. My concern is the effect moving will have on my two boys.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
