I've just had the most bizarre conversation I've ever had in my life:


H texted earlier to ask the kids (and me) over for tea tonight and asked if pasta with tomato sauce was OK?

I replied:

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Pasta is fine. Do you need cheese bringing? [he's been away for the past 2 weeks and I know he won't have had time to go shopping as yet]

Thank you for your kind offer for me to attend for dinner but it's best that I don't come as it will be too painful for me to be in your new apartment with all your stuff that used to be here. It's too sad for me. I hope you can come here tomorrow though [tomorrow is the 2nd anniversary of his dad's death], as I don't want you being alone. But please do as you wish.

I hope you understand. x



And his response:

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Yes to the cheese


Absolutely unbelieveable. So I still don't know if he's going to grace us with his presence tomorrow. I'm not going to ask him again, though.

Was it something I wrote?? Where did I go wrong???


Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.