Seems like it - he's living (has lived) a double life, effectually. Fantasy vs. reality... that's what porn and affairs, etc are all about. Pastors are VERY prone to that sort of bi-polar thing. He knows he's had depression. Don't know if that qualifies as bi-polar. He knows I "talk" to others and have sought out resources for help, which he despises and says I should just listen to him.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
