Choosing not to discuss the our relationship with my wife for the last 6 months has not improved anything. It may have not made things worse but not better.
How do I neutralize the anger and resentment she harbors for me? Giving her space and leaving the relationship alone appears to have done nothing. If she feels anger towards me isn't that better then before when she said she was indifferent to me? I know she has to do this internally. If certain behaviors will drive her away, then why can't certain actions help to neutralize her feelings? If this is a reasonable line of thought, then what types of behaviors will help?
I would like to tweek my interactions with her, in hopes that she will lower her shield a bit.
