Ok. I was being a bit angry and admittedly, hurt, last night. I feel better today. I also believe I did pretty well in my interaction with H last night. I'm sure I sounded hurt, at least in my voice, but I also was pretty well in control when telling him to enjoy himself, because I really hope he does.
I also received an offer to enjoy New Years with another lady from the office (she's single, so no happy couple and family to envy at her place). There seems to be a shift of some sort. Maybe its the holidys, but suddenly I'm not "hands off" now? I've known them for years and felt abandoned, but now they're reaching out to me? I'll take it.
I'm glad you're feeling a little better today. Did you accept the invite from the lady in the office? I know what you mean about feeling abandoned by friends you've known for years. I'm having the same problem.
