So I sent H a Happy New Year text at 11.50 last night and he returned the text with X. No message. I thing this tells me a lot about where he's at.

Tomorrow (jan 2nd) is the 2 year anniversary of when his dad died. He has just been over to pick up a picture of his dad. When he'd left, I called him and invited him around for dinner tomorrow as I don't like the thought of him being alone on that day. I don't know if he'll accept my offer. He said he'd get back to me. I am feeling kindness is the only way through this. I dont know if this is more for his benefit or mine, but I feel it's the right thing to do.


Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.