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I'm trying to convince myself that not knowing the future is exhilarating. Not sure it's working. But at least now I have chance to be happy. Before I was on autopilot.

Happy New Year, Grlonfr. What does 2016 feel like so far?

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Happy New Year Gmum.

I caught up a little bit on your thread. I think there are two schools of thought about relationships.... When you stop looking love will come your way aka live your life. Or putting yourself out there you will find what you are looking for (perhaps especially true in the age of online dating).

Try to figure out what it is you want... companionship or a love story. Companionship could just be friends or meet up groups, etc, instead of looking for Mr Right.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
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Happy New Year Gmum



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus
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I want a love story. But not ready to date and prob won't be for a long time. I'll start when I want a man and not as long as I think I need a man.

Happy New Year, Mahhty and Mu

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You are here. You fully recognize that you needed help or support and you came here. You don't need anyone but you and your D.

Hmmm Love Stories. I had one that I believed in once. I also thought I could imagine the "story book ending." It was the only relationship I believed in, in my entire life.

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Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
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Yes, just me, D and some $$$$

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Feels like stubborn lice. frown If kid were a boy, I would have given her a crew cut...


If I were the WH, I would have given myself a crew cut too.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
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I'm so sorry you're still dealing with that, Grl.

I hope you have your own w/d so you don't have to go to a laundromat 10 times a day until the damn lice are gone.

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Ah, lice! Such fun memories. It hit my household one time...only 3 of the kids were born at the time. The Boy? Shaved that head! The girls, hair cuts, and nit-picking along with shampoo for lice, every night for 2 weeks! We conquered it. smile

H and I were never affected. I have no idea which of the kids brought it home first, because it seemed they all got it at the same time. A bunch of itchy heads all at once!

I haven't forgotten the daily laundry, either!

Gmum - I'm here for you! Happy New Year, my friend. smile


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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Same to you, Ancaire.

So happy to have "met" you.

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