Jpeg - I'm so happy that you've got a "happy" kind of memory! That'll go a long way towards not letting his actions destroy all the fun of the trip.
How did you find out it was OW who told him to break down the door? That's kind of odd. Did she go in the house with him? That would make me about as angry as I could be! I WOULD be pressing charges if he broke down the door and invited her in. Your L would probably have a lot to say about that, too.
What an interesting tale. After H threatened to throw me out on the street, I advised him I was changing the locks. He turned purple with rage...it would've been funny, except I was so hurt/angry that he would say such a thing to begin with. Judges don't tend to look favorably on a cheating spouse treating the non-cheating one like trash. I was really happy to learn that!
