Thanks Fo.2 - no need to worry about me! You have enough going on. He forces the R(relationship?) talks. Nothing is ever good, or affirmative, unless he's talking about himself. When I try to show gratitude, he reacts by saying he doesn't need to hear what I think of him nor my thanks in any way. I have asked about activities, etc, and the direct approach is usually met with extreme rage. Walking away also provokes rage/reaction. Going out has stirred the same reactions... but he won't admit exactly why he gets upset. He's probably upset that I'm talking *about* him online right this very moment.
Happy new year.


Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?