Hi, I am here. Thank you Fo, I am so emotional today. Between my friends funeral and all this I feel like its last March. Tomorrow morning is my BD 1 year anniversary.

"Maybe that is what is going on with your W too?"
I do not want her to suffer. I have not mentioned our marriage since this summer. She would not even talk to me.

"She is not happy. Has she expressed what would make her happy?"
I have never asked her that. At this time she does not want to share feelings.

"She doesn't want a R with you, but she hasn't asked you to leave?"
That is correct. I said last January I would not move out and if she was that unhappy she would have to herself. She did not.

"Is she depressed?"
It seems that way to me but I will never mention it.

"I am wondering if you are both depressed and mirroring it to each other?"
That could be, I don't know how that works or how to tell.

I am going to post this then answer Jelly questions. I'll be back.



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