My wife promised to our pastor to no longer continue any contact. Somewhere between telling him we weren't going to any more sessions, and Christmas, she started up again. She gave me hope, my flame lit WAY HIGH, and then I burned the sitch, and her. Drove her away, and she started up with OM...
You can choose to give up. You can choose to stay and work on yourself and see if time helps the situation, and your W can work on herself.
Remember, a WW is an addict. Stress (life, relationship, kids) is the trigger. Putting stress back into her life will give her a mental reason to keep going back to the well.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)