WW is onboard with trying to save the M

[JGuy]

I just saw my W's email and found that she started contacting the OM again there. She is still crossing the line and saying things to him about how her heart is still with him. Obviously, she doesn't want to lose him.

I'm not entirely surprised about this, given that this contact occurred the day after my W and I had that conversation where we both mutually agreed that it may be time to accept the end. At this point, I'm only a bit disappointed as I was still hoping she might maintain NC. But since she's back to contacting him again, I am firmly shifting gears into moving on with my life.

I'm not sure if I'll confront her about it right away. She did tell me that she would be honest with me and let me know if she did contact him, and she has not done so. So... the dishonesty also continues. I may give her another day or two to tell me about it, and if she doesn't... I will consider it continued dishonesty.

Any advice on how I should handle it at this point? I'm honestly planning to give up myself here anyways. I can't take it anymore.