True. I think we might be more like our S's than we realize also. In one of those posts where you said asking for help as a sign of weakness. I immediately thought "that's exactly my W". I had to step back a second and realize my actions show I think the exact same way, I've just never said it. I rarely asked for help at all. Even when I moved to a 3rd floor apartment I only got a little help from W to move some things. I spent days carrying IKEA boxes up all those stairs and the thought of calling my friend didn't even cross my mind. In the middle of our M when we moved another time we did the same. Just me and her boxed and moved everything, I never asked anyone for help. If I couldn't do something I just would do it in the past. Unless it was absolutely needed, then I need to.
Interesting to see where V leads you with those questions, prepare for some digging. I'm sure the line of questioning will benefit me also in the future.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
