What do you say to a WW when after DB'ing, and GAL, when they complain they think you're distant and not interested in them?

It's script, I know that. Just don't know how to exactly respond. Validate, yes.

But what do you say when they say 'I can see you're pulling away, and that tells me you're not interested in making this work'... or something along those lines? The first bad attempt at DB'ing, my W did say something like that. Now that I'm actually doing what ya'll told me I should have been doing from the beginning, I want to be prepared, if the opportunity arises.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)