My GAL/detachment feels much like I'm single again, but with a house, a dog, and 3 kids, and lots more responsibility. Oh, and a roommate.
Now, I'm feeling different than I've felt in the past - it took two months of mistakes to get here. I've taken other advice, and working hard to get a WW to come back by pleading and begging and guilting immediately makes them file the D at worst, and makes the fog their in stick around in the least. Either way, you're not helping matters.
From what I can tell, we all make lots of mistakes. Most of us are highly emotional, and are trying to grab lightning bugs with our hands as they flutter by. Every look, every little hope, you hang on.
Make a mistake, pick yourself up, and begin again.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)