LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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Tx, she has taken some positive steps but are they real or is she just temp checking. I feel she is still trying to cake eat. She's asking questions about my whereabouts now that we're D'd? She no longer has the privileges of being my wife. I have acknowledge to her that I see she is getting better. But I believe I should still wait for her to bring up R talk.

otw- I am very angry with her. I don't think I have fully allowed myself to run through these emotions.

Over the past couple weeks I have really been detaching and I'm seeing positive results OR MAYBE she's just being nice so I'll let her stay in the house until she closes on her new home. No one really knows.

I definitely have walls up. I don't trust her. I won't just let her jump back in to the circle of trust. I know God calls me to forgive immediately and I find myself doing this over and over again but trust must be earned.