Tfish - I know it hurts. I'm sorry. The early days really sting.

He is not himself anymore. Let him twist in the wind as there really is nothing you can do to fix this for him.

Are you continuing to read all those links Cadet sent to you? Knowledge is power.

You are doing great! Keep taking care of you and your kids.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced